Important Things to Know About Humans

VII. A Web of Interconnections  ↑

49. Family is the foundational paradigm.

We humans tend to form long-term bonds with mates, and such couples often have children and jointly take responsibility for raising them.

Families generally provide mutual aid to their members, and provide parenting for their offspring.

Family members generally feel strong bonds of love for each other.

Basic cultural elements, including values and stories, are generally passed down in these arrangements from parents to children.

Partners often exhibit some degree of specialization of roles within the family unit.

The broader culture often provides templates for family norms, including gender roles, and, while these templates can be valuable as starting points, they should not be considered as binding requirements, thus providing couples and families a valuable degree of autonomy.

Family members generally feel a primary loyalty to each other. Thus the axiom that “Blood is thicker than water.”

Parents are the primary source of education and nurturance for their children, and the quality and quantity of their parenting makes a huge difference in the traits acquired by their children.


Words from Others on this Topic

Love is a particularly distinctive human experience (built on a trait seen in only a few other mammals, namely, the practice of bonding with mates).

Nicholas Christakis, 2019, from the book Blueprint: The Evolutionary Origins of a Good Society

Instead of needing lots of children, we need high-quality children.

Margaret Mead

If we could say only one thing about making the world a better place, to be reflected in our social policies and our personal decisions, it would be to increase nurturance thoughout the life span and especially during its early stages, starting before birth.

David Sloan Wilson, 2019, from the book This View of Life: Completing the Darwinian Revolution

The institution of the family is decisive in determining not only if a person has the capacity to love another individual but in the larger social sense whether he is capable of loving his fellow men collectively. The whole of society rests on this foundation for stability, understanding and social peace.

Daniel Patrick Moynihan, 1986, from the book Family and Nation


Relevant Reference Models

Love for family - SS

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